I Had Anorexia And I Am Terrified My Daughter Will Inherit The Disorder

I cringe when I hear other parents complain about their "little fatties" and how their children will just "gobble everything up". Lucky you, I think. I hope they retain that same reckless enjoyment when it comes to food forever. As for my three-year-old... well, we like to joke that she has the diet of a…

I Will Never Get Over The Fact That My Grandmother Died Before My Daughter Was Born

I didn’t want to write about this for a long while because I simply wasn’t ready to. I still don’t think I’m ready to write about it. I still think I am struggling to process a lot of grief and anger. But I think there’s an element about my grandmother’s passing that I’m ready to…

Mums Need To Stop Apologising For Needing ‘Me Time’

It's one of the most-oft recited lines in every new mother's repertoire: I never get anymore me time.  Heck, I know if I don't expressly say it I'm at least thinking it around 5000,0000 times a day. When mums talk me time they're not talking about anything spectacular (although an all-expenses paid trip to Paris would be…

Please Stop Asking When We’re Having Another Baby

Let me preface this post by emphatically stressing that I love, love, LOVE my daughter. I love her. I love everything about her. I worship her. She is my reason for living. But fuck me, being a first time parent is hard. Like, really hard. I've worked in live TV news and let me tell…

Did Feminism Suck All The Fun Out Of Motherhood?

I have always considered myself a feminist. Sure, I might not 'look' like one (whatever that means, but I've been told it before), but I am. Heck, let's be honest here: every woman is a feminist even if they don't realise it, because feminism in its basic, basal terms is just about women demanding equality…

Why Does My Husband Find Parenting So Easy?

A few months after giving birth I asked my husband how he thought I was doing at this whole motherhood thing. "I always knew you'd be a good mother. You're good at everything you do, you're such a perfectionist". He complimented me. He comforted me. He stroked my ego. But (me being me) I didn't…

Why Working Mum Guilt May Not Be Such A Bad Thing After All

The guilt, my god the guilt. The confidence and conviction exhibited in first-time mothers about how they will cope/react/adjust when their baby arrives can only be compared to that of a 16-year-old teenager and their approach to, well, just about everything. They pretty much know it all, okay? They've read the books. They've watched the…