Guess what? I’m a neurotic mum and I’m completely fine with that

I am not a cool mum by any means. I'm a neurotic mum, a worried mum, a paranoid mum, a 'worst-case-scenario'mum and hey, I'm OK with that. This is my first baby and, like riding a bike, I'm nervous and trying to figure it out as I go along. It's a balancing act.   As…

I will never get over the fact that my grandmother died before meeting my child

I didn’t want to write about this for a long while because I simply wasn’t ready to. I still don’t think I’m ready to write about it. I still think I am struggling to process a lot of grief and anger. But I think there’s an element about my grandmother’s passing that I’m ready to…

Why mothers need to stop apologising for needing some ‘me time’

It's one of the most-oft recited lines in every new mother's repertoire: I never get anymore me time.  Heck, I know if I don't expressly say it I'm at least thinking it around 5000,0000 times a day. When mums talk me time they're not talking about anything spectacular (although an all-expenses paid trip to Paris would be…

Why no child is ever ‘too young’ to experience art

Long before my daughter was born and long before I had even met my husband I vowed to myself that if I had a child I would ensure I exposed her to art at an early age. I would read to her from my favourite works, play Marriage of Figaro as I rocked her to…

Did feminism suck all the fun out of motherhood?

I have always considered myself a feminist. Sure, I might not 'look' like one (whatever that means, but I've been told it before), but I am. Heck, let's be honest here: every woman is a feminist even if they don't realise it, because feminism in its basic, basal terms is just about women demanding equality…

How song lyrics can transform your life

I am an unashamed Taylor Swift fan. #TeamTaylor and all that. Yes! That was me waving the flag at the front of the #Swifty brigade. OK, now we've got that sorted I can dig a little deeper into her latest album (which, by the way, is fucking amazing). Anyway, on the song 'End Game' Taylor…